About those ashes

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  • Mimi 06.22.2008

    I’ve always been skeeved out by cre­ma­tion, and con­vert­ing to Ortho­doxy cemented that. But, now con­tem­plat­ing that all around me are scat­tered ashes just skeeves me out more. Lord have Mercy.

    I’ve heard that “It’s a Small World” is a big place to scat­ter ashes.

  • Skeeved out it EXACTLY what I am! On one hand, I can cer­tainly under­stand the envi­ron­men­tal argu­ment for it, and I think peo­ple like that it seems like you’re sort of let­ting them drift away rather than decom­pose (eww).

    But I also note that the peo­ple that I’ve seen do this seem to want the per­son to just … go away, be wisked away in a gen­tle breeze and sort of be every­where and nowhere at the same time. They crave a peace that doesn’t seem like our lot with all things death-related, and they seem to want a kind of for­get­ful­ness that … Well, you never want to think harshly of any­one in their grief, but I can’t help notic­ing how that stands in oppo­si­tion to the Church’s say­ing: Mem­ory eternal.

  • I think it’s sad for our cul­ture that of all places so many would choose Disneyland. :-/

  • That’s the other part of this that is note­wor­thy. You’re going to strew the remains of a loved one on a silly theme-park ride? Are we so uncom­fort­able with the things in life that are worth tak­ing seri­ously that we have to con­stantly take refuge in our havens of silliness?

    Maybe so.

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